Pepsi Twist instead of my all-time favourite Pepsi Max

I may say that it is the post-sickness syndrome.

11 hours straight of sleep and now I feel like doing everything I can get my hands to. Washing the clothes, having a great breakfast, cleaning the room, writing my blog.

I always experience this after I recover from painful sickness; a fever, or a severe headache. Amid the crazy workload in the office, it struck me of what my husband said - Perhaps this is the only way that I might finally have some rest.

And it worked. It had been quite a long time since I feel this energetic.

I was fasting yesterday, and the pounding headache started just after I went out from the subway into the office building. And it built up since; I felt as if I wanted to drill a hole into my head. I tried to sleep, but that only worked for an hour or two. After that, I found myself kneeling on the floor, looking down to avoid the lights, and crying, because I didn't know what else to do.

I vomited green at nearly 5 o'clock in the afternoon. I texted my husband; "I'm going to the clinic; I can't take it anymore."

It was a brief meeting with the doctor, she prescribed me Cefargot with a smile, telling me I should be okay by the morning. "Migraine? But I have never had it before," I conflicted, but she just said, "Well, it can develop." And showed me the way out.

Later when I told my husband that the doctor prescribed me Cefargot, he said the doctor was wrong. We knew better; it was the insane workload, the restless hours, the worries of due dates that drawn my body to sickness. And I guess we were right; I am now okay with only painkillers. I didn't take any Cefargot. I had a feeling that taking those pills will make me sick again, next time with an actual migraine.

I have always hated this clinic. The doctors seemed to be more like machines rather than doctors. I overheard a conversation between the clinic attendant and a foreigner. She should have had an appointment yesterday afternoon, but the clinic had to cancel it, so they called this lady to say so. Thing is, she wasn't able to pick up the call, and presumed that it was nothing so she continued to go to the clinic as planned.

She arrived at the clinic having the clinic TA telling her that the appointment had actually been cancelled. She was devastated and asked why didn't she be informed about it. The clinic TA claimed that they had actually called her to tell her about the cancellation.

"How many times did you call me? I have only one miscall. In my country, the clinic will call many times to make sure the patient is well informed."

The clinic TA fell silent. The lady then shook her head and went out.

Well, I dig her enough. But I wasn't really listening; my head was pounding too hard. At about 5.45 o'clock, my husband came to pick me home.

I wanted to eat beef porridge to break fast, so we went to look for one, much to my disappointment, though.

While my husband ordered chicken rice at a Chinese Muslim restaurant, I waited in the car, viewing the world passing through outside the car window. I looked, and wondered; why is it that most of the time I never get to eat what I actually wanted at the time? I really wanted to eat beef porridge, and I was fasting, AND I was not feeling well. I ought to get what I wanted, right? Is it too hard a request?

I was almost crying, when I realized,

Perhaps this is what Allah wants. Perhaps He wants to teach me that His wills are far better than my desires. Perhaps He wants me to align my desires to His wills.

Oh Allah, then, I will eat what You pleases me to eat. Whatever You have decided for me, they are all the best, because You always know better.

It was a teary realization, but it had put my heart at ease. And I cannot thank You enough, my Lord. Alhamdulillah.

Now, off for some clothes hanging business! :)

is that you, mr kunci hilang? i wonder.

there's a saying that goes

'everyday is quite a routine but you are always a different person from you were yesterday. a little wiser, a little..more.'

i had the chance to go through my past posts and comments.

to feel the same way as when i was writing them long ago. to get comments like 'anta no koto nanka omoshiroi. kotoba. yasashi no kotoba'. and to relive the experience.

i guess the calling to write and have a blog was a right choice. sometimes i wonder whether i would like to reread my posts and to acknowledge that things are different now and then; i might be missing parts of my life that i dont know whether i can have them again or not. and to wonder about whether my life has been better or worse now.

i realized now that it is not important. all these times, all these experiences, the good and bad-

are all me. the minion orphan who have a wondrous life experiences.

i walked alone yesterday from the heavily congested traffic, into the greenery area of our future rental house. there were doves picking on the grass, cars were very few, the grass are light green to yellowish in colour. there were little hills by which stairs are built to connect between the different blocks, and our block is slate clean. some newborn cats are resting under the hot sun, some are sleeping with their mothers. leftover rice were carefully put on newspapers at one corner of the building, under the stairs so it wont get spoiled by wind or rain. i couldnt remember if there was a bowl of water next to it, but i'd like to believe that it was there.

mr yap: so how's our princess doing today?
me: well..the princess thinks that she has found her house.
mr yap: ahh..good for you. how far is it from lrt?
me: about 15 mins walk.
mr yap: that's quite far..and the area..there are many bad hats around, you know. i know the area. i am worry for you.
me: yeah..well my future neighbour said he brings a big umbrella with him always, just for protection.
mr yap: well..yeah..but being you you need to be less attractive..you look like a princess you should need an escort wherever you go.
me: hahaha..i should be fine with the umbrella..perhaps i shouldnt go back home late as well.
mr yap: yes. and wear snickers to and fro work to help you walk and run.
me: yep.
mr yap: you should bring jeans with you as well. change everyday before you go back home. make it a habit, you'll get used to it fairly fast.
me: that's good advice. thanks mr yap!

back to lrt, i followed a short cut paved with red bricks with big shady trees bellowing their leaves from atop to mask the blaring sun. i was sweating my shirts wet but calm inside. out from the paved road, i continued my steps again into a busier, more hectic traffic.

into a busier, more hectic life.

just to get challenged again. just to get riled up the courses of harsh reality, demands and expectations again.

well, it doesnt matter. i dont have all the time in the world anyway, and so does all problems. i just need to catch up, be wiser, keep moving forward. thats the only sensible choice i can come with.

ganbaranakya yo ne.

p.s: have a blessed birthday, habib ali al jufri. i like to hear you and see you smile i think i am seeing a bit of the prophet through your eyes.

concerning the sound of a train whistle in the night - haruki murakami

this is the 400th post.

i went back early today; well, we all did. nadia and i went to kino. i wanted to find a part of me that's missing.

when i walked back home, the rain has just stopped but sun rays were already dancing through the leaves. Traces of rain drops falling from the leaves of the line of trees where i was walking, and then absorbed by the pavement and some of them seeped into my shoes i was almost careful not to splash them. the sky was heavy but bright at the same time, shades of grey and dark blue and white filled the sea blue sky. i could see KLCC from where i was standing.

nearer to my block i could hear guitar being played, the music reminds me of hobbies and good times, and how everyone should have some spare time to do what they really want to do, everyday. that very thought clenches my heart sometimes too tight but i usually would have been too tired to remove it. missing a part of yourself is like a coming wave, it comes to you for a sudden without you anticipate it, and sometimes it goes away from you unnoticed. and i, the more, want it back that it aches me to remember the glittering past whereby i can sit still all afternoon and spend it quietly with the chirps of birds and swimming ducks by the student accommodation's lake.

so i try, little by little, to bring back those times, albeit it is not common. although it would take some time, although at certain places and conditions it would not fit. even earlier when i was watching those falling rain drops, i blinked many times, just to make sure my eyes took enough snapshots to store it longer in my mind.

my creativity is one of the fine arts that define me, and it is draining i can feel i am not soaked in it anymore like i was in my formal studying years. and darn it, i cannot let it go i want it back too much i will definitely get it back with His will. and He knows best.

i stumbled upon a book on creativity, on how to stay creative, some words are:

- dont wait until you are better to be creative
- everyone should have a side job, a part hobby
- write what you want to read

very good insights indeed.

ascending up the lift, i then wondered about the time that we can eventually live together, in our own house, with our own furniture, book shelves, kitchen, toilets, bedrooms, and lawns.

if we cannot have our own book room, then our bedroom and living room will have a lot of book shelves. i am a book keeper so i will find it hard to let go of books. some i will keep just to make sure i will read them again with different perspectives, just to track how much i have changed between the years.

i love children books so no matter how many children we would have i will eventually buy some time by time. i love the honest and merry english and i'm always amazed how simple words can mean the world to me sometimes. and japanese books, too, as i am sure as heaven right now that no matter what i cannot let go of my dream to go there, or live there for a while, or for forever. i don't know about forever yet, but i am sure going. im going, no matter what.

and i will make sure that the cupboards and book shelves are all wood-made, so after some years it would smell of books and trees and chocolate pages. and i will have a lot of note books by which i doodle or draw or write good quotes or some japanese. i haven't found one type that i can live with forever, though. although some are very nice and 'me' but since they are pricey they are automatically out. i have decided that i don't need a lot of money to be creative, my history has definitely proved that.

and my wardrobe will be full of colours, so of course i will arrange them according to the rainbow. but i am not sure about my wardrobe being tidy; sometimes he is better and sometimes i do like to play around with my things up to a point that they would become messy. a little bit- i am a freaking perfectionist to be able to stay messy, anyway.

by thinking how 'me' i can be, makes me happy. (^___~)Y

"happiness is when what you think, say and do, are in harmony"

da ne?

and there's another thing that makes me happy that each time i recall it my heart will feel warm and my mind can be calm again.

the moment when i just finished drying my body after bath and he came with a comb, asked me to sit in front of him and started to comb my hair. although i see in movies that they usually chat about a lot of nice things during that time but i was too happy that i didn't know what words to say.

a taste of heaven, i should have said. thank you forever, my soulmate cum hubby. i love you.

i hate to go to ttmc. i'll try to go again tomorrow, hubby =)

seriously, there have been times when i stood in front of my laptop thinking about what i really want to write. for hours. and i end up not writing anything.

like..almost now.

maybe because i am more into editing pictures now. similar to when i was in australia. yes, when i was still single *ehem*.

or maybe because i am more into reading tales now. did you know that cinderella was actually first written as a story by the name of ashputtel? and snow white as snowdrop? but it is amazing how rumplestiltskin, hansel and gretel and frog the prince remains original throughout time.

or maybe because when i had the excitement of writing again, i checked that my last post was only 26 days ago, which is somehow "premature".

or maybe because now it is already 11pm and i have made some sort of pledge to sleep early.

ahh..these probable causes have masked my "should-be" idea to write.

anyways. glad my ipod's ok now. this is one chump that always reminds me how lucky i am.

since i got it, a new ipad, and a new iphone completely free. from lucky draws and my lucky man.

cheers (i just realized how long since i last used this word) and good night (read first: husband &) people.

assalamualaikum.

assalamualaikum irfan =)

i have wrote to my daughter but i had dreamed of a boy.

our irfan. it could only be a dream, but it can also be true, so mama sends assalamualaikum to you who are still in alam barzakh, dearest irfan. mama woke up beside daddy that morning, still numb after dreaming you. daddy asked mama why. you were so cute, a little spoiled like me as you cried a little when daddy left for work. mama called your name many times to soothe you. you had daddy's eyes, and your hair was so straight, soft and shiny. and yes, you are so brilliant we can see it from your eyes.

irfan, mama wrote to your sister about marriage in the earlier post. so let me continue the story, you both can share the stories later :)

mama suffered from acne during the year before daddy and mama got married. and sometimes we sulked. especially mama, i am a damn perfectionist when it comes to..well, everything. but the fact that mama knows that always make mama struggle to not being one, because it can hurt a lot.

but you know irfan,

being married to daddy might just be the most magical thing in mama's life. mama may not be able to tell you how, but insyaAllah daddy and mama will show you. and hopefully you will understand, and most importantly, feel happy and blessed just like we both have felt, all the way, all the way.

if mama have the time, mama will tell you many stories of challenges, pain and difficulties that we have gone through. and that the end of each stories, we will smile and laugh together because Allah's love is great and He always show us the way out, the solutions to every problem we have.

irfan,

mama dont know how to describe why mama fell in love with daddy, but mama will try.

mama has seen a lot of big guys but mama havent seen one with guts as big as his. this includes how brave daddy is to ask mama's hand for marriage and to strive on making it successful, how brave he is to cry with mama when mama is sad and humbly  apologize when something is wrong.

mama has seen a lot of guys who can flatter anyone with their words but mama havent seen one who can understand mama's words and silences better than he can. and he can understand almost anyone, he can make almost anyone smile sometimes just by hearing his voice.

and he cannot wait to have you, he was so excited to know about mama dreaming of you. he asked what were we doing, where were we, how did you look like, how old were you in mama's dream.

no words can describe how happy and relieved mama is when alhamdulillah we are destined to be together as husband and wife on 1.2.34H last year. and to be blessed by families and friends? it was priceless.

but this year is a challenging year for us, irfan. so we'll take one step at a time, shall we?

i couldnt imagine speaking to my boy yet, that's why its the daughter this time

someone noticed that i havent written for quite some time so i told her the reason is because i am busy with preparing for my wedding.

'so you should write about your wedding.'

well, that's...irony, dear. but i didnt have the idea to really write, until now. its because i actually have some time now (while waiting for movie time) and because i wondered about something.

it is this- i want to write to my (future) daughter. wahai anakku (ok that is quite jelly-sound for me).

i want to tell her how much his mother loves her father, and how her father loves her mother more. and i want to tell her why her parents' love is special. out of the world. jupiter-like.

and what's more important is, i want to tell her that loving is hard. but she'll survive, just like her parents have survived.

dear child,

getting married means having something you never knew before.

for example, acne.

when out of the blue, one morning, you might feel like your world has a dim future, because acne never registered as a possible feature in the history of your grandeur life. you, a very cute little thing, who have features like kim tae hee, has acne. not one, not two, but several, like volcanoes waiting to erupt. like a map waiting to be drawn. its that scary that it would make you aware of your sleeping position, because you read that the side of your face which is routinely fixed onto the pillow might have a higher chance for acne to develop.

it would make you spend thousands of ringgit (i am not kidding) to try different face products that might ease and put away the acne. and there was a time when you felt like you have to learn to accept the possibility that acne might just stay and be a part of your life, forever, and the only thing that might make you remember how beautiful you used to be is the pictures in your facebook account. for better or for worse, you might then think. it has been almost a damn full year, and you still havent fully recovered. with all the things that are happening in your life, you might just curse and say 'just screw all this thing'.

there's another thing you might notice when you are getting married, my child.

that you both will fight, sometimes badly, you might cry more because you are hurt rather than because you miss him, and suddenly things are not that sweet anymore it might sometimes become lame. you might think that you would be stuck with the same person with the same habits and you might start to question whether you really are ready or not.

and sometimes when you put faith into the relationship and try to work it out, it worked one time but the fight happens again another time, not long after, and it would make you angry and very, very tired. you would sometimes ask yourself what are you actually doing, because you dont know anything about him and yourself anymore.

and even writing this is tiring, mama needs to stop for a while. we'll continue later, lovely. dont tell your daddy i tell you this, okay.

dildaara (stand by me)

Since the fist time I saw this woman I have become inspired with her looks, her voice, her language, the way she dresses, the vitality she has. I should someday tell her this, when the time is braver and less shameful. Right now, I simply feel incompetent and there would be little meaning to my words.

And this dildaara song has gotten me dancing again in melody, and the fact that it so much somehow reflects what India is like (Beautiful Forever has somehow changed my perspective on India almost entirely) definitely have put more meanings to this special country. Thank you to another lady again.

Such significant ladies which I have always have a dream to become someday. Such beautiful ladies with their own crafts not even the best man can copy. Such energy and consistent resonance to drive a changing force, yet gentle and supportive in nature. I am not just envious; the motivation transpired through me almost transparently.

The engagement session with her today has given me some hope; I don't know for better or worse though, I am that skeptical. But what I know for sure, is that she has something I have been looking for for too long in the company. She emphasizes non-stop on core empowerment, the basics behind why we are doing things, the very reason we are here. It just finally makes sense to me.

She said she asked to change her profession because she wanted to make an impact. She wanted to showcase that if something is successful, it would be because of her, and if it becomes a failure, it would also be because of her. Her courage to own problems is what turned me really silent and listened. She has such a powerful mind. This lady, is not only has quality in her work, but in her personality as well.

She has done it due to choice, and I want to mimic her, if not be better than her. Yes, condition has put me in this corner of a tough choice; but what I have painfully learnt was that there must be for a reason. I guess condition has always played an important role in changing the course of my life. And I want to turn this into something good. I want to add some values into my life. I want it to be meaningful. There are still a lot more in me, I am non-exhaustive at the things I want to do and achieve in my life that at some point I am afraid that I will lose you.

But the dreams are high enough for me that I guess I will brave the nightmares to achieve it. I still can't give them up. I guess I'll just do what I do best and let Him decide on which path to take. And through all these years, I should know better on how much long you have been beside me, making me smile after each tears. Holding me closely with such assuring words and confident ways. Nothing is too much for you when it's about sacrificing for me.

So I will ask from you humbly, my love - please be patient with me. We will achieve something big. InsyaAllah, ameen ameen ameeeennnn ya Allah...

And just as you are, I cannot wait to marry you :)